Practice, Practice, Practice.

SWKA just had a great weekend seminar with Mr. Rich Hale! I hope everyone learned as much and I did and had as much fun!! As always Mr. H covered many things in his seminar but one that really seemed to stick out is the one I'm going to share with you guys today. :) We have all heard the phrase; "practice makes perfect." Well that's not exactly true. 

Mr. Hale used the analogy of someone learning how to play an instrument for the very first time; you can't expect to pick up a guitar and strum on the strings for hours and hours and music just begin to play. You have to learn chords, notes, how to tune it etc. Then when you practice you have to practice correctly. CORRECTLY is the key. 

Bringing it back to Kenpo; if you go to practice and you say "I'm going to practice by throwing 100 left snapping front ball kicks today," there is a chance that as you practice your kicks sloppy. You may start to pull your kicks, or your "snapping" becomes more like "flopping." So if you practiced a kick 100 times but became tired around the 40th kick them you most likely practices kicks 41-100 worse than kicks 1-41. 

Mr. Hale's suggestion is this, practice a kick correctly say 20 times, (or whatever is a comfortable number for you), then switch to something else. Kick with the rear foot or work your strikes in a horse stance, just change it up so whatever you are practicing you're doing it correctly and benefiting each time. 

Forms are a bit different when you're practicing to make them better. Mr. Hale's suggestion is when you practice your forms find individual pieces to place a focus on. Example: practice Short Form 1 five times in a row focusing only on your foot placement. Solid Neutral Bows, no fidgeting of your foot before transitioning into your next stance, etc. Then focus the next five practices on something different, such as keeping your eyes straight forward rather than glancing up and/or down, or focus on generating solid power in your blocks, or generating rotational force. The point is to keep your mind and body from becoming stagnant during your training. 

Mr. Duffy has a phrase that I am particularly fond of; "Practice makes permanent."

What I want you to take away from this post is that you will always get out of training what you put into it. Slow to learn, slow to forget. 

Those Gosh Darn Facebook Egos

"Any man who says 'I am king,' is no true king." -Tywin Lannister. I never anticipated that I would use a Lannister quote in a positive manner in a karate blog post, but there it is! For those of you that aren't familiar with the Game of Thrones universe I'll catch you up quickly, Tywin Lannister is a very powerful leader and the right hand man to the King of the realm, his teenage grandson Joffrey. Joffrey is basically the medieval version of Sid, the kid from Toy Story who tortures toys for fun, Joffrey's toys are citizens however. In a particular moment of twisted evil plotting Tywin puts his foot down and tells his grandson that enough is enough. Joffrey naturally responds back with 'but I am the king!' Leading Tywin to say my favorite line of the entire series, and the reason this blog was sparked today. "Any man who says 'I am king,' is no true king." 

I haven't been in the world of martial arts as long as I want to be, but I've been in it long enough to see my fair share of ego, and boy is there a lot of it on Facebook. 

Here are my top 5 favorite (and by favorite I mean most annoying) ego types

1) The ones that post all the time about how tough they are.

2) The ones who "challenge" others, both intellectually and physically. 

3) The ones who feel the need to defend a decision they've made relating to their martial arts journey over and over and OVER again. 

4) The ones who hijack comment on other's posts in order to talk about themselves/promote themselves/stroke those pretty ego tail feathers. 

5) The ones who can't stand someone outranking them so they post vague hateful statuses to rally the masses into a big hate frenzy.  

Of course that's not all, but those are the ones that seem to be most common; when I first started Kenpo I was a wide eyed 18 year old and I was about as naive as you can get. I added every martial artist that requested me, because I wanted to immerse myself into this new world and meet and communicate with as many martial artists as I could. Well that turned out to be good and bad. I've met some wonderful people that have changed my life and impacted me in such a positive way. On the other hand I've ran into so many egotistical people that I may develop tendinitis from all the back peddling I've done via the "Unfriend" button. 

Here are some of my favorite quotes that I love from Mr. Ed Parker's book The Zen Of Kenpo that I relate to egos.

"Whatever the attitude, so is the response." Pg. 6

"A martial artist who boasts of being IN the art longer than another forgets that the person being accused may have been AT the art longer than he." Pg. 10

"When one willingly and continuously boasts of his loyalty, anticipate toasting his departure," Pg. 10

"For every champion in the ring today, there are at least two who remain unknown and uncrowned." Pg. 12 

"Communication occurs when both parties talk and listen. When only one does all the talking, he certainly is not listening." Pg. 20

"A loss can be worth the experience if you gain something more valuable from it." Pg. 35

"One becomes great when he comes to the realization that what he knows is very little." Pg. 46

"How we see ourselves is not necessarily how we are." Pg. 90

So, my advice is simply this, take an extra moment before you click the post button to review the status you just typed, or that macho photo you're about to share. Be sure that it reflects the kind of person you want to be, and what you want other people to see. Hide your weapon my friends. Just like good old Tywin said; "Any man who says 'I am king,' is no true king." 

I'll leave you with one more quote of Mr. Parker's from his Zen book; "I would rather be showered with humility than be sprinkled with conceit." Pg. 46

Tournaments!

I often have parents ask me what is good about tournaments and why they should consider taking their kids to one. So I decided to blog about my reasons, why I think you should or shouldn't want to participate in a tournament. 

Why You Shouldn't Go To A Tournament 

1) If a trophy is the only thing that you care about. 

-Honestly you can go to your local trophy shop and purchase nearly the exact same type of trophy for $5.00. Trophies are nice, they're sparkly and make great bragging rights, but they're really not that important. 

2) If you're going with the intention of harming your opponent. 

-Really this should need no further discussion. If you're only training in karate so you can hurt someone than shame on you. I've known a few people who refuse to participate in tournament sparring because they've had one bad experience with an overly aggressive fighter who didn't respect the rules. If all you're concerned with is harming your opponent to prove how macho and tough you are then you need to reconsider your priorities mate. 

This is a short list, but I feel my two reasons are absolutely necessary. There's no room for egos, especially in a tournament. 

Why You Should Go To A Tournament

While I really only have two main reasons for why you shouldn't participate in a tournament, I have tons of reasons why you should. Here's my top ten! 

1) You get to meet new people. 

-This is my absolute favorite part of tournaments. Especially open tournaments! Not only do you get to meet people from different places but people who train in different styles too! Some of my greatest friends I've met at tournaments. Even if you train in different styles, the world of karate truly can be like a family if you let it. 

2) Receiving tips from outside sources. 

-Judges who are kind enough to offer suggestions and comments after I compete are my favorite!! 9 times out of 10 they aren't instructors from your school, so they're able to provide an outsider's opinion on how you performed. 

3) Being exposed to different arts. 

-It's so interesting to me to see how other styles train. Watching other arts compete especially in forms is always a fun thing to do. After your heartbeat slows down and you don't have to worry about your own competition anymore of course! 

4) Having the opportunity to train hard in preparation for something. 

-Every January I get the itch. Tournament season is coming, soon after I start catching myself running through my form in my head whenever I can't work on it physically. That extra nudge just makes you better and makes you train harder. 

5) Learning about other events in the area. 

-Often while tournaments are running they'll announce other upcoming tournaments and events in the local area. It's nice being able to learn about other events you may not have heard about otherwise.

6) The adrenaline rush. 

-When I line up and the judges are seconds from calling my name my heart races, blood thrums in my ears and I'm terrified. Something happens when I step into the ring though, it's like my blood is lit on fire. A good old adrenaline rush! 

7) Seeing old friends. 

- Earlier I mentioned meeting new people, one of the really cool things about attending tournaments for a period of time is you start to recognize faces. You begin making friends and look forward to reuniting with them at those annual events. 

8) Watching the Black Belts compete. 

-This one is obviously aimed at us under belts and its one of the best parts in my opinion. I definitely recommend sticking around for the Black Belt divisions, they always prove to be a good show! 

9) The memories. 

-Pretty self explanatory, you do make some great memories with equally great people or at least I seem to. 

10) It's just plain fun. 

- Karate is hard, and it's definitely a lot of work. So an opportunity to spend a day doing something you've worked hard at and love with others who love it to is bound to be a good day. The most important thing to remember when you go to a tournament is to have fun. Wether you win or lose there are always experiences you can take away from tournaments, having fun though that's the important part. 

Sharing Bruises

Training Partners Within The Weekly Classroom Setting

 

 

This blog is a two point part discussing my opinion on training partners within the classroom and within the seminar setting and why I think they're important and what works for me.

 

 

Having consistent training partners is essential for making techniques actually work. I know I've heard this phrase time and again; "Air Kenpo Sucks!" Nothing feels better when you're training than to be able to take and give some shots with someone else! There are, as with everything, however some positives and negatives to having the same partner all the time.

 

Positives:

• They know your threshold for pain and are able to respect that with little accidents occurring, likewise you are familiar with theirs.
• You are aware of how each other's techniques flow, you know how to appropriately attack and react adequately.
• You recognize progression within each other's personal Journeys and can encourage and assist in personal growth. 

 

Negatives:

•  You risk the chance of getting so used to working together that you become lax when training together.
• Having the same partner all the time means that you know how he or she is going to react; this removes some of the reality of training.
• You begin to share anecdotes during training time.

 

So, my suggestion is, when you have the opportunity try and choose different training partners to use. That way you are training with different belt levels, body masses, and attitudes.

 

 

Training Partners Within The Seminar Setting

 

 

I don't dislike working with other girls, I mean c'mon girls rock! But I will admit it's not what I prefer. I have always rathered working with guys especially in seminars. Why? Because most likely if I'm ever to be physically assaulted it will be an adult male who's a hell of a lot bigger and scarier than me. Let's face it ladies, we're tougher than we think, but for some reason in seminars we tend to gravitate towards each other. I, on the other hand, try to find a higher ranking male than me to work with as my training partner during the seminar. For several reasons;

 

1) It'll be as close to the most realistic training I'll be able to get out of that setting.

 

2) It's someone who's higher ranked than me and often I receive very valuable pointers on how to improve.

 

3) Most of the time it's someone I don't know very well or at all and it opens up the chance for a new friendship.

 

This is just some of how I feel and ways that I try and keep my training fresh and different; I hope you enjoyed it!  

Fixing It

Unfortunately something that was supposed to be purely positive has been turned negative and I want to fix it. My blog post was not directed towards my former instructor, had nothing to do with his teaching at all. My post; this one http://kenpodoll.blogspot.com/2013/02/i-smiled-entire-time-i-wrote-this.html, was about my personal growth. If you go back and read my entry from May 2011 right after these seminars took place; this one here http://kenpodoll.blogspot.com/2011/05/motivated-through-guilt.html, I said

"I was livid with myself, I wasn't studying up to par. I didn't deserve the rank I wore, I own the Encyclopedia, the Journal and the Infinite Insights. And I have read and used them all numerous times. But there's a huge difference in reading and studying, much in the same way as there is a difference in listening and hearing. These past two weekends have been very motivational for me. I haven't closed the Kenpo Journal program on my laptop in over a week. Studying doesn't mean learning the techniques, studying means digging into the principles. What applications are found where and why. Anyone can learn techniques and forms, but principles, those are often over looked. I want to help preserve Mr. Parker's Kenpo, and I want to do it right. I still don't feel like I deserve to be a 3rd Brown Belt, but I will."

As you can see from the beginning, (When I was still a student of Mr. Bundy's) I said that I didn't know the principles in depth the way that I felt a 3rd Brown Belt should. Hearing principles and understanding them are two very different things. Angle of Cancellation versus Angle of Disturbance; yeah I didn't have a clue; now I do and I was proud of that. 

The key point that I want to stress that I said in the article that Mr. Bundy is referencing is;  "This was the first time that I had ever really been exposed to principles. I'd never heard terms such as Marriage of Gravity, Economy of Motion, etc. in such detail." In detail. 

The seminar in Oklahoma was the first time that i had been in attendance in a Brown/Black Belt only seminar. I did not feel up to par at the time because I didn't understand the details of principles, or how to properly execute them.

I really don't know what else to say; it wasn't about Mr. Bundy at all; it was about myself and the growth that I've experienced.

It's Just A Strip Of Cloth Right?

For the first time in almost five years of training I lost my belt; well kinda. Let me back up a bit. So Gene was out of town on Thursday night and I opened up the karate school for a few hours as an open mat to our adult students. We ran the line, worked on our forms then we padded up and sparred for a bit. It was a lot of fun for sure!

Fast forward to today, Saturday morning, threw on my pants and gi jacket right before class began, reached into my bag and my Brown Belt was not there. My stomach dropped and I immediately felt like I was going to throw up. Where the heck is my belt?! Class was literally lining up so I didn't have time to tear everything apart. Luckily Gene and I keep our belt racks at the school so I borrowed his 3rd Brown Belt and hopped onto the mat. I couldn't stop thinking about where my own belt was though. My mind was flying trying to track my path between Thursday evening and this morning. I never take my belt out of my bag unless it's going on my body so I was clueless and steadily growing more and more concerned.

  We ran the line again in adult class this morning, and my head was not in the game. Caleb Farmer noticed my anxiety and asked me if I was alright and I started to tear up when I told him I lost my Brown Belt. Immediately I started telling myself that "it's just a strip of cloth. Not a big deal, the belt is not that important. Suck it up cream puff!" There's no crying in Kenpo!! Class finished and then hunt began, after over an hour I found it, in my separate bag that I keep my sparring gear in. I was absolutely ecstatic.

Yes, it's just a strip of cloth, but I've put so much into Kenpo to earn the right to wear that belt. I've been wearing the same Brown Belt for almost 2 years now and it's a huge deal to me. The thought of having to break in a new 3rd Brown Belt broke my heart. I'm really happy that I'm a part of something that special. I'm glad that my initial reaction was to freak out, rather then just think "eh no worries, I can order a new one. No big deal." When you work hard for something you definitely cherish it for all it's worth. Instances like today make me so very grateful that I don't train in a McDojo.

Being a Good Role Model Via The 'Net

"Are you a good role model?"

Sometimes I step back and ask myself this question, just to keep myself on the right track. Earlier this week while I was scrolling through Facebook posts I came across an article that shocked me a bit. Recently a school teacher was fired from her position because of the inappropriate content that she shared on her social media accounts. This individual tweeted numerous photos of herself engaging in marijuana usage along with several photos of herself naked or nearly naked.

This 23 year old has ruined her professional career when it was just beginning because she abused social media. It's articles like that that cause me to stop and reflect on how I present myself. Social media is an incredibly powerful tool and it's true what they say, "The Internet is forever." Negative posts, tweets, and comments attract far more attention that positive ones do, which is a sad fact. As deep as the social sharing has become it's not just what you personally post or share that your friends or followers can see; it's every like, comment and retweet as well. Your interactions with others are not private over the world wide web.

All I could think while I read that article was; "what if she had been a karate school instructor?" What if she had been an instructor in a school and fellow students or instructors saw her acting like that?

When people make you angry do you react blindly with emotions and ego bleeding through your fingers as fast as you can tap those keys? Or are you able to keep a level head and respond clearly and responsibly? Do you make an attempt to keep your matters private or are they splattered across your Timeline?

I'll admit, it's very difficult for me to keep my wits about me and respond rationally to something when a post angers me online; but I've gotten a lot better over the years and I have to credit Kenpo for that. Part of the 3rd Brown Belt Pledge talks about handling all grievances or disputes away from group observation. I feel had Mr. Parker created that pledge in 2013 it would read something along the lines of "I will handle all grievances and disputes away from group observation AND the Internet."

When you are teaching other people, especially kids, about the martial arts respect is one of the largest building blocks in the foundation of a good martial artist. Not just respect from students that are a lower rank than you but also respect for yourself. Being appropriate not only when you are face to face with other people, but also when you are sitting behind your computer screen. A good martial artist keeps their ego in check and their interactions appropriate. A good martial artist has respect for their fellow students, including those that are of a lower rank than them. It seems that the higher ranks automatically are shown respect, as it should be, however at some point everyone has been a White Belt. Lower ranks deserve respect too.

So next time you're typing out a status that's so full of your ego there's no more room on the screen, or you are about to share a raunchy photo, please please think of who may see it (everyone) and what the repercussions might be before you click that post button.